FetishMenSanDiego (established June 2010) is a very welcoming group, focusing upon male kinky beginners, seekers of wisdom and mentors. We have discussions and events every week, and we periodically host HUGE gatherings, just for the pleasure of promoting Tribal joy!

FMSD is a HUGE, cohesive and cooperative male kink/fetish group, with thousands of followers all over the world. If you're curious about kink, or you're already into it, you belong here.

We meet every Wednesday 7PM, at Stomping Ground in Mission Valley, as well as other public spaces.

We welcome all ages, all colors, all body-styles, and all experience-levels. The only people that we actively and aggressively discriminate against are...GRUMPY PEOPLE! So, we all agree to leave our bad moods outside. Our events are always peaceful, joyful, light-hearted and diverse.

We are known worldwide as the premier example of the newest style of kinky male brotherhood. We've got a solid history of hundreds of excellent, joyful and inclusive events of all sorts of sizes, locations and types... Educational (including hands-on practice), social and communal. A few are in bars, but many are not.

Our weekly Men's Discussions are big, informative and never boring. We consider them to be our best way to greet our newest brothers.

We're not a "hook-up club" (there are plenty of private parties and the internet for that), but a large number of couples have found each other through our events, since we host many excellent mixers.